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Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1543

Hi guys,

Could i ask you to pray for my wifes friend sherry? She is giving my wife ungodly advice regarding our marriage. Please pray that God would help this woman deal with her inner struggles and that an oppourtunity would become available for her to accept Jesus as Lord and saviour. I pray God would use her to save my marriage... dont know how... but God is able to do the impossible.

Satan is using this women to destroy and i think she could be used to heal and save.

It was very difficult to write the above prayer request... very difficult because my disloike for her is strong but God tells us to pray for our enemies. Really hard to swallow this but i can do it through Christ Who Gives me the Strength.

Thank you,

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1572

Hi guys,

Can you please remember to pray for Leigh-Ann. Every indication from her is to continue towards divorce. Doesnt look very good (on the outside) for this to be reconciled.

Some good days some bad. Mostly bad without hope. But im still standing and wont budge.

So very difficult to not think bad things... but thats the enemies job to keep peppering me with thoughts of hopelessness and anger.

I wish things were different. I wish for harmony, unity and love.

Please Jesus dont let me fall... i dont know if i can get up again.

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1588

Good morning,

Please continue to pray for my LeighAnn. I feel there may be a breakthrough with her. I ask or prayer to bind all ungodly influences in her life, all ungodly voices she is listening to, and all addictions she hangs onto for comfort would be removed from her life. I stand with the authority given to me by Jesus Christ to battle these spiritual influences and bind and rebuke them in the Name which has ALL power and Authority on Heaven, on Earth and below. In the the name of Jesus Christ and by HIS Blood.

Humbly and Gratefully Yours,

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1593

All,

I have discovered my wife is having another affair. I dont know what to do.

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1595

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please keep your faith,i've been praying for the lord to remove the scales from her eyes,hopefully it won't be much longer,but if it is keep your faith ,for god can move mountains
yours in christ mark

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1645

Good Morning,

I humbly would like to ask for additional prayer from anyone who feels led to do so. Could really use the support... even though i have handed this over God it still fills my mind... divorce, adultery, unfaithfulness. Trying to keep my heart, mind, soul and eyes on Jesus. Wanting to fill the void in my heart with God and HIS word. Very difficult to live under the same roof together when she knowingly is committing adultery somewhere else and then coming home to sleep. I feel she brings with her the evil which causes her to sin... knowingly into our house. It makes me angry she would do that to us.

But God does not give us any more than we are able to handle... so i know HE is at work in the spiritual realm fighting the portion i am unable to handle. Certainly it cannot get any worse?

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 9 months ago #1646

Pray for her, for her salvation at any cost to you.
Put this totally in God’s hands, pray and wait on the Lord.
Plead the blood of Jesus over her, the other man, you, your children and your home.
Don’t try and manipulate any situation.
Be still and know I am the Lord.
She may have to separate from you and divorce you before she turns to the Lord and any reconciliation happens.
What she is doing will not make her happy, this other man will not fulfill her, it will take time though for her to see this.
A divorce does not mean the end. People get back together after a divorce all the time.
If the divorce happens that may be it and you may never get back together.
You will have to move on, I’m sorry but you will.
Suffering through a divorce is a lot like suffering through a death.
But eventually after a morning period you have to go on.
Otherwise the enemy can use it to bring you down, and take you from the Lord.
So many people are walking around obsessed with the past; I have seen this, ten years after a divorce they are still pinning away after someone and their ex has long been re-married. It’s like their record just keeps missing a grove. Their lives are destroyed; no other relationships work out, because they subconsciously won’t let them.
It can become all consuming, you need to draw close to the Lord no matter what and pray pray hard for a sound a mind, a pure heart and clean hands.
He can bring you back together, but probably only after she has salvation in her heart.
And if not, you will have to make sure you and your children are spirtually okay.
To play the game and win, you must pray for her salvation, pray for that other man, pray for her friends’ salvation and blessings.
That is the only thing that will weaken the enemy enough and drive him away.
Satan is not just trying to get her; he wants you and your children.
If he can do that by getting your wife to commit adultery and leave you, he will.
He wants to destroy you. These are some of the most difficult things to say, but they are more difficult to put into action, to actually do them. Please be strong, keep the faith and remember everyone's salvation is what is important, it is what it’s all about and it is totally paramount over any of our personal needs.

God Bless,
MerMer Rae

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1648

Mermer Rae,

Your post has confirmed another email i was sent yesterday. Its what i will do.

And you are right about praying for their salvation. Its not them but the dragon who conitnually seeks to destroy. He is in for a battle because i have nothing else to lose but everything to gain. Im not puffing myself up but know through Christ HE will direct this fight and win it.

I already see and realize that this disruption in my life has brought me closer to God... i am reliant on HIS strength because i am weak. HE wont let me down an wont abandon me... but i need to keep my eyes focused on Jesus. And again thats what i am doing... im in for the long haul. I have absolutely nothing to lose...

Thank you for your email.

Love In Jesus,

Oliver

Good point 6 years, 8 months ago #1653

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That is a very good point that MerMer made...that Satan and demons are the TRUE things that influence people to do the things that they do. It's truly that little voice you hear in one ear saying to do something bad, and then in the other you have God telling you once to do the right thing. The problem that we as humans have though, is that most people don't want to listen to the good thing, because it's usually much harder to do and control, so they just give into the bad thing, thinking that it's really themselves thinking this thought; but it's really a little demon putting that thought of lust or mistrust or disbelief in that person. I believe once we realize this, that it's how we can learn to love EVERYONE...because it's not actually that person doing it, but the evil forces taking control and misguiding them. Yours in Christ, Stephanie

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1660

It has been through difficult times, emotionally and through much heart ache and loneliness that I believe the enemy meant to destroy me with, that the Lord used to bring be closer to him.
I still think about it and pray about it, and pray for the ones who hurt me.
I love them, and want the Lord to save them.
Even though I feel lonely and sad in some ways.
I also know and feel that the Lord stepped in and saved me from a fate worse then death.
I honestly feel that and believe that.
But it is hard sometimes, but the truth is only the Lord knows best.
I can’t really explain to anyone exactly what I mean, But I know the Lord was with me all through it and watching out for me.
And I wasn’t close to him at the time, but slowly during that time I was moving towards him closer and closer, not in the other direction, the direction the enemy wanted.
I am better off now even though I’m still lonely.
This may be my cross to bare, I don’t know but I will bare it if that’s what he wills.
I pray for an end to the loneliness and for Christian friends.
But ultimately I pray for his will or I try to, I want to want his will anyway.
Only God knows what is to come, only he can see all the way to the end.
It’s only God who can see all the way to the end of the tunnel.
If I knew it all then I might see, but I don’t.
I have faith in the Lord, that is my choice; he’s whom I pick.
Others choose themselves, or some other god or philosophy to follow.
There is nothing in this life or on this earth you can count on, I mean really count on, to take care of you or your children.
Not other people, they are human and will fail you.
Not money it comes, it goes.
Not your family, not your job, not Tony Robbins, not even yourself.
You may think you can count on you, but then one day you find a lump and the Dr. tells you, you don’t have long to live.
That’s when you’ll say, now what and now who will take care of and provide for my children.
If you have the Lord, you won’t have to worry. He always keeps his word.
When everything was lost, is when I found all I will ever need.

I heard the following on the radio yesterday.

The subject was were your heart is; Lott's wife was so close and knew so much, but in the end she missed out because of what she really loved. In the end her heart won out over everything she new.
The heart will always control the mind, and will always win the battle.
Where your heart is, is where you will be lead.

Keep Jesus as the love of your life.

God Bless,
MerMer Rae

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1690

Its been a tense few weeks here at home. Between the lawyers trying to divide assets up, kids have only one parent at home at a time, angry discussions bewteen myself and my wife... hasnt been a house full of joy.

Last night was another example of accusations and finger pointing going both ways... im so tired of it. Then a small breakthrough...

My wife has been watching the disaster in New Orleans on tv. She is seeing the after effects of this disaster. People homeless, dead, orphans, no food, shelter, drinking water... etc. She is scared...

She is scared because she now understands that this could come to our backyard... our city. She understands and sees that rays prophecies are not so crazy afterall... the warnings GOD has given to the world. She now understands why i have stored so much food in plastic buckets in our home... she didnt understand at the time why i was doing it (nor did i) and laughed at me... said i was crazy... religious freak!!! I stood there and took it... but now her eyes are open and she can see...

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1708

To Anyone,

I have arranged a meeting with ellel ministries to speak with my wife tommorrow evening. She is hesitant about going. Please please please pray her heart would convict her to go. These people will try to help her through prayer... Please.

Sincerely,

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1712

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i felt the lord's presence as i was praying for your wife,i pray your prayers will be answered

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1713

Hello,

Thank you.

I dont understand this. Several people have felt Gods prescenec while praying for our marriage... i dont understand why nothing has happened... well nothing i can see. She is off this evening to visit her boyfriend again... no explanantion why... just left... i knew where she was going.

Still hoping,

Oliver

Re: Marriage Update 6 years, 8 months ago #1714

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was just reading the bible and had the urge to pray for you and your family ,and felt the lord's presence once again
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