Hi Carlo,
Many ask for the wrong thing in their desire for the baptism in the Holy Ghost. I did myself for several years, and never received. I prayed every day for it. Many ministers laid hands on me for me to receive, but I never got it. Many seek it for the signs, which is wrong. And that is what I was doing. My heart was not right.
I see that you are seeking it for the Power to Witness, and that is the Right way. That is what the Baptism in the Holy Ghost is all about, the Power to Witness.
I can only give you some guidance in how to seek this Gift of the Father.
I offer the following which may give you a greater understanding of this gift, and how many have received it.
Ten reasons why Every Believer Should Speak in Tongues:
Http://www.barr-family.com/godsword/reasons.htm
Seven steps to Receiving the Holy Ghost:
Http://www.barr-family.com/godsword/steps.htm
And a booklet "Receive that Power by Faith" by Norvel Hayes. It was after reading this booklet that I realized that I was asking for the wrong thing, and when I started asking for the right thing, the Power,
and believed, then I received the Baptism in the Holy Ghost. I know of others who received the Baptism in the Holy Ghost after reading this booklet.
Http://www.barr-family.com/godsword/rec ... -power.htm
You have to submit to the Holy Ghost, you have to open your mouth and let the Holy Ghost use your tongue. Giving up your control of your tongue to the Holy Ghost controlling your tongue. And believing.
I have laid hand on and prayed for some to receive the Baptism in the Holy Ghost, with them saying that they did want the Baptism, but then having the Lord God tell me to stop praying for that person to receive the Baptism in the Holy Ghost, because that person would not accept it.
Then I have a sister to whom the Lord God had tried to give her the Baptism in the Holy Spirit. I was first aware of it shortly after I had received the Baptism myself. The Lord led me to copy and send to her all the verses in the Bible which would lead her to accept. Then about two years later, I was praying about 2 am and the Lord told me to pick up the phone, to call my sister to tell her that the Lord Wanted her to accept the Baptism in the Holy Ghost. I called her, woke her up, she became angry, and during that conversation, indicating that she had never read the Bible verses that I sent her two years before. But reluctantly said that she would try to find them and read them, but she never did.
She then gave that excuse that is given time after time, saying "If God Wants me to have it, He will give it to me!!", I told her that the Lord was trying to give it to her and she had to accept it. She never did accept the gift of the father, so later the Lord let me know that the gift to her had been withdrawn, that she would never have the Baptism in the Holy Ghost, and because she did not have it, that she would suffer physically in the future, for although the Lord was using her, and she is his child, she was not listening to the Holy Spirit and so the day will come when the Holy Spirit will say to to her, pick up and run NOW, instantly, and because she is not listening, she will not run NOW, and will be caught and suffer at the hands of invading soldiers.
I know that applies to her, but I do not know that it applies to everyone. I say here and now again, that you do not need the Baptism in the Holy Ghost for salvation. It is not a requirement, it is a Gift. It is for the Power to Preach the Gospel. And Jesus thought it was so important to have, that although the Apostles already had the infilling of the Holy Ghost, Jn. 20:22 Still Jesus commanded them to wait for the Gift of the Father Lk. 24:49; Acts 1:4, 8
What I can tell you, is that the difference of having the baptism in the Holy Ghost and not having the Baptism in the Holy Ghost, is like a foot race. With it you are running full stride toward the finish line, and with out it, you are hobbled, taking small steps toward the finish line. both can make it, but the one without is more likely to become tired and sit down to rest, never to get up again. For I have seen the difference in me between having it and the time before when I did not have it.
You are on the right track Carlo, keep asking the Lord God for the Power, and believe that the Lord God has given you the power, and you will know when that power falls upon you. And you will feel your spirit lift and fly like an eagle.
And Mark, you are right, we can not ever dictate to God that he has to give us this or that.
The preachers wife you write about, will never have the Baptism in the Holy Spirit, for she was not after the Power to Witness, but rather she was after the signs.
And there is no one on earth who can teach anyone else how to speak in tongues, although there are some churches who try. If any of you out there find yourself in a church which tries to teach you how to speak in tongues, turn and run out of there as fast as you can, they are NOT of God.
Good people, every Christian should also be aware that there is a false Tongues out there, from Satan. So how is one to know? The True tongues will ALWAYS Glorify God, and a Christian will only receive the Gift from God, and not the false. Only the Non Christian can receive the false.
I will not go into the difference between speaking in tongues as the sign of having Received the Baptism in the Holy Ghost, and the giving of messages in Tongues, which is similar but different in purpose.