I thought that God told me something was true about my life, but now I am totally confused. I feel really sad and confused I do not know if God put those idea in my head or what, sometimes I feel it is God but than I get confused again. How can I discern if something from God or not , what I saw was personal, so there is no way of making sure right off the bat. Sometimes I can hear God , but I feel like I am too spiritually weak to understand him. I read daily and pray. I am sad because I cannot understand God. Please pray that I may discern God's will in every aspect of my life, and that I may understand him clearly. Why should I hope for or desire something that is not the will of the Father , even though I can see no sin in it. I believe if is not what he wants to happen, no matter how harmless it seems it might hurt me in a long run.

Please pray for me

God bless

Yolanda

wanna talk more about it sis? I get confused alot myself , sometimes nothing seems clear. Im here if you want to talk , but i think its better to speak it before us all , the more counselers the better. Who knows sis , maybe it will help others haveing the same problem.

There is this person, I feel strangely attracted too. I knew this person for over five years, he is a Christian and he is my friend. The weird thing is I always saw something beautiful inside this person. I feel weird because I do not know if God wants this for me or what. I cannot love or desire to love someone God does not really approve. How can you tell who really put those thought in my head. When the doctor said my Dad might have cancer a few weeks ago. He was the only the only person who truly comfort me. I could see myself taking care of him even if he got real sick. And it hurts me to think that some girl or person should ever use him. For he is a very kind person. I met this person through my sister and she wanted me to see if he was cute. I told her I cannot judge people by look , I have to meet him first, when I met him I thought he was the most beautiful person I ever met. See that is why is too confusing, how can you tell who God has really chosen for you to love.

has the Lord given you any signs against it? In any of your memory , has there been anything that you have seen or felt from the Lord as to think why you two should be together?

Star4Jesus wrote:


Hi Yolanda,

That is an interesting question. I can tell you only of myself. I first wrote to my wife as we were both in a pen pal club. She in high school and I in the Navy. But the first time that I went to see her, I knew as soon as I laid eyes on her that I was in love with her. That was over 51 years ago. and five children. We married after she graduated from high school.

Now as I read you post, there is a little story which came back to me, that I think that I should post here just for you.

There was a flood in one area, and as the water rose, the man climbed to the second floor of his house. As the water was reaching him, there came a boat by which was picking up people. But he would not get in the boat, telling the people that God was going to save him. The boat left, and the water kept on rising, so the man climbed out on the roof. Then another boat came by and the man again refused to get in the boat saying that the Lord God was going to save him. That boat left, and the waters kept on rising, so the man climbed up on top of the chimney, and the water was up to his waist. then along came a helicopter that tried to pick him up. But again he refused saying that the Lord was going to save him. The helicopter left and the water rose so high that he drowned. And when he stood before God, he said, God, I thought you were going to save me! To which God said " I sent you two boats and a helicopter, what more do you want???"

I guess my question is, how many men does the Lord have to put in your path before you will accept one?? Will you keep on turning them down saying that the Lord will send one to you???

St_Joel gave you a good answer and a good question.

Now the ball is in your hands, what are you going to do with it?? Does that man have any idea that you might care for him?? Or will you wait until he gives up on you and goes off and marries another? Only you can answer these questions. It is your decision, and whatever you decide, you will have to live with it for the rest of your life. But that is true of virtually every decision that we make in life.

If you love him, go after him. If you do not love him, set him free. It sounds to me that from what you have written that he has some feelings for you.

Please, pray for me... enemy is attack me again!

Thanks for you advice Rev Jack Barr and ST Joel. I am going to pray to God that I may speak the right words to him. I know if I will trust God he will guide me.


God Bless,

Your sister in Christ,

Yolanda ?:

Thanks for you advice Rev Jack Barr and ST Joel. I am going to pray to God that I may speak the right words to him. I know if I will trust God he will guide me.


God Bless,

Your sister in Christ,

Yolanda ?: